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Taking your own life

I’ve been getting a lot of posts in my Facebook feed about Brittany Maynard. For those who have seen the news, she is a 29 y/o female who is dying of brain cancer. She has decided to take medicine to end her life because she didn’t want to suffer or have her family watch her suffer.

Now I don’t want to judge anyone, because it is not my place, but I wanted to share my feelings. And I’d like to know yours.

I’ve struggled with hopelessness before. A few times actually. Once in college when I was under a lot of pressure to be perfect, to please my parents, to get into med school, while dealing with issues of very low self esteem and low self worth. Then my boyfriend cheated on me, the only person who knew who I really was and saw my worth. I felt like a nobody again.

Again in medical school, I felt that hopelessness again. Everything was so crazy. I didn’t want to be a doctor, but knew I’d come so far that I couldn’t quit. I couldn’t disappoint my family, and I had 250 grand worth of debt. I was trapped in a situation I couldn’t control.On top of that, I suffered from a very traumatic experience caused by someone I trusted.

Then once again after being diagnosed with lupus, I considered once again that life was not worth living. I believed I wouldn’t be able to work or have children. I thought I’d always be sick and in pain. I thought for sure my boyfriend would leave me. My future looked bleak.

Each time I considered ending it all. But I got through. And I am happy. Not completely healthy, but happy.

Now I am not comparing myself to Brittany or the trial she is going through, but I believe in hope. A hope that I have in Christ. A hope that comforts me through a tough time. A hope of knowing that God always provides. A hope that reminds me to rejoice through trials, because I know it is making me a stronger and better person.

My heart goes out to her and her family, as does my prayers. I’ve shared my thoughts, please share yours.