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Ask the Doc- Why isn’t my doc willing to hear out my ideas?

A reader wrote in about a concern she had with her dermatologist. Her concern is that her current treatment is causing more harm than good. She has tried to show him research studies that she has found about the issue, but he won’t read them. She has also tried to show the study to her PCP, but hasn’t had any success.

In the doctor-patient relationship, I believe it is very important that there is trust between both parties. Patients need to trust their physician’s judgement and believe that their doctor is looking out for their best interest. But this does not mean they cannot seek further explanation or information.Patients have a right and responsibility to be involved in their care and treatment, and advocate for themselves.

As a physician, I believe in addressing my patient’s concerns, even if they may seem trivial. I may not always agree with what my patients are saying, but I believe it is worth considering, even if it is to simply show my patients that I respect and care about their feelings. Doctors have extensive medical knowledge and training which guides their decisions, but that doesn’t give us permission to completely dismiss our patient’s opinions.

Although we may be open to our patient’s ideas, sometimes our hands are tied. We have to be careful about going off- protocol, as does anyone in any other profession. There are standards of care in medicine, and treatment plans constructed around evidence-based medicine. Deterring from these standards can cause major issues for a physician.If there were to be a negative outcome due to a physician going off label, or denying the recommended treatment, the physician can be held liable as well as feel the guilt of going against consistently proven methods and causing damage.

I think the real issue here is that the reader does not feel that the dermatologist is being receptive of her concerns. I would encourage anyone in this situation to make their doctor aware that they feel their concerns are being ignored. We sometimes get so focused on the plan we have in our head, that we don’t realized we’ve stopped listening. If the physician is still not willing to listen, then I think it’s not a bad idea to get a second opinion. At the end of the day, the doctor and patient should work together as team with one goal- providing the best care for the patient.