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Inspiration from the Garden

So as many of you know, I’ve started a little garden in pots in my backyard. I have some thyme, dill, parsley, oregano, basil, and my favorite is the red chili pepper plant. Most of my plants had been doing OK, but the pepper plant always looked so sad. The leaves would just droop and wilt, and ¬†look completely depressed.

After consulting google, I decided that maybe my plants just needed more water. So, I started watering more frequently, and soaking the soil. The herbs started growing and becoming more vibrant it color, and so did the pepper plant, but the next day the leaves on the pepper plant would start to sag again.

Then my parents came to visit me at my new place, and let me tell you, my father is a skilled gardener. He has all sorts of veggies in the garden as well as guava, mango, and papaya trees. Every time I come home, he’s bringing in a vegetable for mom to cook or slicing up some ripe fruit for a snack. He took one look at my garden and made some changes.

First he moved the plants into a shadier spot. The instructions on the label said they needed full sun, but apparently the direct sunlight was too harsh. Then he moved a couple of them, including the pepper plant, into larger pots because they needed room to spread their roots.Finally he added more soil to the pots, filling them with nutrient rich dirt.

I hadn’t had much hope for them, as I would be leaving for almost a week, but I was greatly surprised. My husband had only had the chance to water them once during that time, and I prayed they hadn’t died from dehydration.When I got home and walked into the backyard I was amazed. The plants were bright and green, and the pepper plant was even starting to grow a little chili.

This made me think a lot about life. I’ve been depressed before, the weight of my lupus and job heavy on my body and heart. I’ve felt the hopelessness of feeling like things will never get better. But little changes can make a huge difference. Removing yourself from toxic situations, changing your environment, surrounding yourself with friends who support you and give you room to grow, feeding yourself with food that nourishes you physically, emotionally, and spiritually can make an impact on your life. And with care from a loving Father, you can turn your life around.

Hobbies

I believe whole-heartedly that people should have hobbies. For me it usually changes every couple of months. Sometimes I’m interested in scrap booking, other times it’s painting. I’ve gotten into embroidery and sewing, and even knitting. When I’m feeling really inspired, I take to writing poetry and songs. This season it’s gardening.

I’ve started a little herb garden in pots in my backyard. I’m growing cilantro, thyme, parsley, basil, dill, and oregano, but my favorite is the red chili pepper plant. It’s exciting to watch how they grow everyday. And the best part is I get to use fresh herbs in my cooking.

Hobbies help keep us engaged and motivated. I have not started my new job yet, and being at home alone becomes very lonely and depressing. Sure I have tons of housework and paperwork to keep me busy, but there’s nothing to give me a real sense of accomplishment. I’ve noticed that when I’m having a flare, and I feel like I can’t do anything, I feel the same.

For a lot of us living with lupus, we can’t always work. But that doesn’t mean we can’t do anything. We can still keep our minds active even when our bodies are out of commission. I find hobbies that allow creativity or involve helping other people give me the most pleasure and satisfaction. There are a lot of low energy hobbies that you can do such as reading or drawing. If you don’t have a hobby, I encourage you to find a passion or try something new and run with it.

So, what are your favorite hobbies?