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Just Because You Can…..

Doesn’t mean you should.

As a family practitioner, my scope of practice is pretty broad. I can deliver babies, do GYN procedures, and even perform minor surgery. Technically my license states that I can practice medicine and surgery in the state of New York. Perhaps, I could do an appendectomy? I’ve heard of country doctors having to do these kind of surgical procedures because the nearest hospitals is miles away. But I would never do anything like that because I’m not comfortable and I live in a big city.

I feel in life, especially in living with lupus, I am faced with the dilemma of deciding if I should do something just because I can. I can go out late for drinks and dancing, but am I willing to be stuck in bed achy and exhausted the next day?

I can work full time, but would it be at the cost of my health and sanity? I remember when I did work full time. It was so stressful, I was constantly exhausted, and every day felt like a battle. I was constantly agitated and always had some kind of lupus symptom. I made a lot more money, but was it really worth it?

I can go on a strenuous hike or skiing while on vacation, but am I going to be in pain for the rest of the week. Will it keep me from enjoying the rest of my trip?

I guess my issue is that I hate limiting myself. I hate the idea of lupus holding me back. I like to believe that I can do anything I set my mind to, and encourage others to do the same.

But sometimes I just have to be realistic. I am not limited in what I can do. I just realize that maybe I don’t need to do everything. It’s my choice, and I’m okay with that.