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Lupus meetings

A while back I had written about my first experience at a lupus meeting. At that time four years ago, I felt very disheartened and made a decision to never go to another lupus meeting. I wasn’t ready to face my disease and the changes that were about to take place in my life. I was scared and in complete denial. I felt like I was nothing like those sick people because in my mind, despite the pain and fatigue, I was still healthy.

It took about two years before I decided it was time to go to another lupus meeting. This wasn’t so much an educational or support group type of meeting, but a SLE Lupus Foundation ¬†Young Leaders Board meeting for people to get involved with raising awareness and fundraising. I thought it would be a great opportunity to take the tragedy in my life and turn it into something positive. It was really exciting to see young women living with lupus like myself who were happy and able to maintain professional jobs and still have social lives. I wanted to be like them. I left the meeting wanting to come back, but with the demands of my job and the inconvenience of getting into the city, I never returned.

Then six months ago, I decided that since I was working part time, it would be a good time to get involved again. I emailed a contact that I had met at the Lupus Foundation meeting, and she hooked me up with someone from one of the lupus supports groups who invited me to come and facilitate a meeting and tell about my experience as a physician and lupus patient.

I was nervous about speaking in front of a group, wondering if my material would be relevant and relatable. It was a very small but diverse group of people, young and old, male and female, and family members who came to support. I immediately felt comfortable with these strangers. Everyone there was welcoming and supportive and eager to hear what I had to share. They asked questions and offered encouragement, and just gave me that general feeling of understanding and not being alone.

That lupus support group was one of the most positive experiences I’ve had and actually inspired me to start this blog. I definitely encourage everyone to go and be part of their local lupus family. Now that I’ve gotten settled in my new home, I look forward to getting involved with my local lupus community.